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If you are
visiting this site, you are probably looking for answers to many questions
that you have. You have been betrayed, or suspect that you have been
betrayed by someone you love.
The links to the
left will give you some information on support groups, books to read, some
things you may be feeling or going through, what NOT to do, and a quiz for
both the CyberWidow and the betrayer.
We are not
psychologists, psychiatrists or professionals. We are real human men
and women whose lives have been torn apart by Internet Addiction and
cyberaffairs. IF YOU FEEL SUICIDAL, LIKE HURTING YOURSELF OR
OTHERS, PLEASE CALL A PROFESSIONAL IMMEDIATELY. We are here to
help, not to judge, and have all been through a life-changing experience.
Together we hope to educate others on the danger internet addiction and
cyberaffairs can have on the individual and the family. We wish you
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